tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post2163187595116459043..comments2009-08-15T22:45:50.891-07:00Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13457358003310767865noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-43821646781571166592009-08-15T22:45:50.891-07:002009-08-15T22:45:50.891-07:00Some of you are taking this way to seriously. A great turn off is for me, is finding out that a girl thinks that waiting for a missionary is a good idea. Another one is being a complainer that no one ever asks anyone out. I am in no hurry to get married because I have no reason to get married until I find someone with whom I would enjoy my time and feel my effort is meaningful. I have been in relationships and then realized that if I had married that women, I would be in a miserable relationship right now, and &#39;stuck&#39; to be in it or divorce and deal with all the negativity associated therewith.<br /><br />The point is get out of other people&#39;s lives and problems and into your own. Do not tell me when I should go on dates, get married, or have kids. This is my life, and I am the only person I need to please, until of course I find some wonderful women for whom I would &#39;rope the moon&#39;.The Rogerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09361643414052330558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-68762249193100543042009-04-06T09:11:00.000-07:002009-04-06T09:11:00.000-07:00Great post :) Sadly I was kind of one of these in my last year at BYU, at 21 was living with 5 girls who were all engaged and had just broke up with my boyfriend, so it sounds pretty lame, but it actually is a hard situation to put on a smile for, if you are in or have found yourself in this situation.<BR/><BR/>BUT this post definitely claims true in the "move somewhere else in the country" category - I am 22 and have moved to San Diego where I work downtown and feel like a baby in the single's ward - NO extreme or inappropriate pressure to get married, maybe in 5 years or so. SO if you are facing graduation and freaking out, know that the real world really isnt as ridiculous about this :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-40159245368851436612009-03-29T19:07:00.000-07:002009-03-29T19:07:00.000-07:00Girls just need to figure out it really isn't up to them when they get married or IF they get married. Make a plan for yourself that doesn't include marriage, then when you happen to get married, whenever that happens to be, you can adjust your plan but you won't feel sad about still being single at 22. <BR/><BR/>Ex: 1)Graduate High School, 2)continue working and going to school, 3)serve a mission (regardless of what these bloggers say about that), 4)graduate college, 5)start a real career, 6)see the world... and it just keeps getting better. That way, when the right guy comes along you'll be an interesting person not just someone waiting around to get an Mrs degree (if you want the total package you've got to make yourself the total package). And for gosh sakes let a marriage interrupt those plans, don't refuse to marry the right guy because you want a degree first.Foxyredheadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-10876298405792769942009-03-29T16:06:00.000-07:002009-03-29T16:06:00.000-07:00Nessy is in the HIZZOUSEAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-10281959776426106342009-03-27T19:03:00.000-07:002009-03-27T19:03:00.000-07:00"Yes, sue their asses. Go find yourself a lawyer or prosecutor willing to fry them good. Enjoy your nominal damages." -anonymous<BR/><BR/>I am pretty sure their donkeys had little to do with this...unless it was one of those talking donkeys from the bible...then..who knows..winterman93http://www.blogger.com/profile/01027682444446845803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-25984825281099071372009-03-27T18:59:00.000-07:002009-03-27T18:59:00.000-07:00"What about doing one about girls that overly obsessed with missionoaries. I have a friend(and by friend I DON'T mean myself) who is always liking some guy but when she discovers he's not interested she says,'It doesn't matter, I'm really waiting for 'insert missionary name here''" <BR/><BR/>You have no idea how much we laugh at that individual...maybe it is mean and insensitive...but they had it coming when they opened their mouth thinking that was an intelligent thing to say...winterman93http://www.blogger.com/profile/01027682444446845803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-19253193964073007432009-03-24T11:08:00.000-07:002009-03-24T11:08:00.000-07:00I'm also glad Mindy capitalized Hell. Nice touch. +1 for correct grammar.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-60336253826516613832009-03-24T11:07:00.000-07:002009-03-24T11:07:00.000-07:00wow. lot's of whiners here.... seems like they're all girls... probably at the age of 22. The story might have hit a little close to home eh?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-29237140395503995742009-03-16T20:33:00.000-07:002009-03-16T20:33:00.000-07:00P.S. I am Mindy in that original picture and I have no idea where the Hell this story came from but i'm glad that picture isn't up anymore because I have never and will never be as pathetic as anyone who would say anything like that and don't want to be in any way associated with this stupid blog. I haven't met you Jansen but I think you're stupid too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-9805732951263354762009-03-15T23:08:00.000-07:002009-03-15T23:08:00.000-07:00...you are kidding me... did you just realize what you said... you just said that the whole point of marriage, in your eyes, is so that you can actually have sex... no wonder you're not married yet. remember we live the higher law now. you think it... you just sinned. so if you're that obsessed then just go and do it already and stop writing your blog!Deucehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09409099433536793630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-20710835312216978272009-03-12T10:06:00.000-07:002009-03-12T10:06:00.000-07:00Jansen when you get back, your ass is grass and I'm gonna be the lawnmower!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-91964757670741059492009-03-12T09:58:00.000-07:002009-03-12T09:58:00.000-07:00Jansen is the one writing this???!!! Go figure! Jansen, get a job!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-61081339206101405542009-03-11T17:51:00.000-07:002009-03-11T17:51:00.000-07:00Jansen, you are so lame! Stop doing this blog, LOL!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-81330559989131926232009-03-10T14:48:00.000-07:002009-03-10T14:48:00.000-07:00Are you kidding me? I love being single. I hate that moment right after the "Can we talk?", I know it isn't going anywhere good. Men bring this up for one reason only, they don't feel they are getting enough out of the relationship. If they thought the girl wanted more they should just go for it, the hand hold, the kiss, or somewhere in between based upon the individuals involved. But they ask because they want more from you, something that if I was willing to give, there are ways to make happen.<BR/>In the instance that someone brings up the status of an undefined relationship to end it, they take themselves way too seriously and assume way too much of the other person. Relax, let "it" whatever it may be happen naturally.<BR/>The only thing I am bitter about, is the premature DTR.LoriAnnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-15205247842583746352009-03-10T13:18:00.000-07:002009-03-10T13:18:00.000-07:00i love your blog thus for its satirized truth that no one fesses up to. but this one sadly turned out to end with bitterness... a lot of it's true, but the end should end with hope rather than your own view of the "pathetic" single.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-35063195374328181992009-03-07T08:09:00.000-08:002009-03-07T08:09:00.000-08:00No thats called getting married 2 months after meeting a person!Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-58802283854728427952009-03-07T06:28:00.000-08:002009-03-07T06:28:00.000-08:00I think this blog needs to change its name to: "How to Catch a Mormon Man Who Will Never Appreciate You and Treat You Like a Hot Flaming Piece of Crap."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-80557033679661084712009-03-06T13:07:00.000-08:002009-03-06T13:07:00.000-08:00This is the best post yet! In my oppinion: Girls should not get married before age 21 and guys before 23 ... enjoy being single and have fun with YSA. Unless you really know its the right thing to do, WAIT! I have witnessed many divorces and unhappy marriages from really young people rushing into marriage ... I would even argue it may be more lust than love. <BR/><BR/>p.s. Peter Priesthood: Whats your oppinion on guys dating girls alot younger than they are or even girls dating guys way younger?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-45803644909983296672009-03-06T12:05:00.000-08:002009-03-06T12:05:00.000-08:00Let's all just relax and watch a funny missionary video.<BR/><A HREF="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-zfkqcPW38" REL="nofollow">Let me be your Missionary</A><BR/>Heart,<BR/>WillWillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08162929595574123556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-52100688902662948422009-03-06T11:16:00.000-08:002009-03-06T11:16:00.000-08:00LoriAnn you are just as bitter as the restAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-26842154808424322202009-03-06T10:49:00.000-08:002009-03-06T10:49:00.000-08:00I don't know what kind of moronic people or versions thereof you talk to but I have never gotten 'the gasp' you are all referring to, and I am damn cute, a licensed professional/college graduate, an RM, sublimely domestic, date more than any girl I know, and 26-never been married. Though yesterday I was asked how I was still single, but he was more hitting on me than making a generalization about the wed culture of the mormon social infrastructure, so I am not sure it counts as the social demise you seem to have been receiving. But maybe you have that lemming bandwagon appeal and people are wondering where your cult...I mean society dues are suppose to be coming from if not your minimum wage paid, "I was an AP" chubby hubby.<BR/>Men typically don't participate in the gasping, that is left for the ignorant portion of the Relief Society. Not that mormon women are idiots, but how many conversations must I endure about table settings inviting 'the spirit'?? I thought idolatry was a sin or transgression of some form. Anyways, usually you see what you want to see, and the apparent insecurity about your marital status shines through when you ASSume that you are being judged by it or that you, even if only superficially judge others by it.LoriAnnnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-57885614159879366812009-03-06T09:55:00.000-08:002009-03-06T09:55:00.000-08:00This video is about missionaries and marriage...<BR/><BR/>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-zfkqcPW38<BR/><BR/>Check it out. :)Willhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08162929595574123556noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-39235222629458004602009-03-06T09:53:00.000-08:002009-03-06T09:53:00.000-08:00MY FAVORITE!Amynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-39892434288691568232009-03-06T09:22:00.000-08:002009-03-06T09:22:00.000-08:00Note to those worried about copyright issues: Getting a copyright on anything is a legal matter. You can't post your favorite pics from your friend's wedding and decide they're copyrighted. Professional photographers put their stamp on their photos so they don't get ripped off. If you're just some kid with a facebook account you can't expect people not to share your snapshots. So Peter, I LOVE the drawing, but if you feel like you want that photo on there, then go ahead and slap in on this page. The owner can't do anything about it... especially if they are anonymous.<BR/><BR/>PS- this blog is hilarious and I don't understand the people who get offended by it. Not even the sister RM one. I'm a sister RM, and while I think some of that didn't apply to me, I also understand that you're not writing TO ME, your making a generalization. Nothing wrong with that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11092846300385497.post-56829757900076026752009-03-06T08:46:00.000-08:002009-03-06T08:46:00.000-08:00Check out this really cool blog! It's so hot right now!<BR/><BR/>http://www.mormonmen-therealreason.blogspot.com/ <BR/><BR/>WHAT WHAT! Shout out to my homies!<BR/><BR/>(PS this blog is so fun to mess with)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com